I understand this...
My father once told me that a friendship is a gift that is given its not something that can be bought our sold.
I come to learn that this is true. Among other things he also told me about how friends though they might be your friends now they might move away.
I had tons of legos and I was so infatuated with my best friend that I wanted to give my entire collection to him. In my child mind I thought my best friend would always be with me. For we never parted. Though dad had warned me I didn't listen. As years went on our lives changed and evently moved apart. A wedge was also drawn between us do to my mother. Our friendship became rough and to this day we talk but only if I call.
Though this was Sad I come to realize that its okay. I also come to establish a healthy clarification of my relationships. I have my family whitch is a different subject. But among my friends witch are just friends acquaintances. I have my close friends to whom i know pretty well. But lastly I have the band of Brothers.
Brothers to me who would go out of my way to help me in any situation. Someone who I love deeply because I know its there in return. My brother is more then a friend.
My father once told me that a friendship is a gift that is given its not something that can be bought our sold.
I come to learn that this is true. Among other things he also told me about how friends though they might be your friends now they might move away.
I had tons of legos and I was so infatuated with my best friend that I wanted to give my entire collection to him. In my child mind I thought my best friend would always be with me. For we never parted. Though dad had warned me I didn't listen. As years went on our lives changed and evently moved apart. A wedge was also drawn between us do to my mother. Our friendship became rough and to this day we talk but only if I call.
Though this was Sad I come to realize that its okay. I also come to establish a healthy clarification of my relationships. I have my family whitch is a different subject. But among my friends witch are just friends acquaintances. I have my close friends to whom i know pretty well. But lastly I have the band of Brothers.
Brothers to me who would go out of my way to help me in any situation. Someone who I love deeply because I know its there in return. My brother is more then a friend.
In my case I love all my friends some I have not talk to in a while. I come to know though if I do call them. Its an exciting conversation pf catching up. To not expect to much from people is healthy to do me is also healthy. To understand that the world has more demands on social relationships then back in my fathers time. But because I understand this it healthy not to always given to the demands.
If I honeslty kept up with all my friends on a daily bases I would go insane.
If I honeslty kept up with all my friends on a daily bases I would go insane.
So if my friends dont call me everyday its because they are healthy an sane.
Though my brothers might move away I am happy in knowing that I have them now!
Friends may come in go but in memory they last forever.
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